These are the things that you should do: speak the truth to one another; judge with truth and judgment for peace in your gates. Also let none of you devise evil in your heart against another, and do not love perjury; for all these are what I hate,’ declares the Lord~ Zechariah 8:16-17
Recently I took a fresh look at two of my favorite books of the Bible, 1st and 2nd Samuel. The author divulges in vivid (and occasionally scandalous) detail the good, bad and ugly bits of David’s life, proving once and for all that one does not have to be faultless to be a man or woman after God’s own heart.
Revisiting an old favorite inevitably causes me to see something I never really noticed before. This time it was Joab. He seems, at least in the beginning, to be nothing more than a bit player in the story. He emerges in 2nd Samuel as a military mastermind and the go-to-guy for all things ethically dubious.
If there was a shady thing that needed to be done, Joab was the man to do it. The person asking did not have to worry at all about Joab questioning the morality of the proposed action, or attempting to set them on a more virtuous path (2nd Samuel 11:14-24. Joab just wasn’t that sort of a guy.
Joab possessed some noble qualities. He was unquestionably loyal to David, a courageous warrior, and a brilliant military strategist. He was also power-hungry and egocentric. Joab appears to have been driven by the need to control and manipulate the people and circumstances around him. If he had a personal motto it would have been, “The end always justifies the means.” His best choices were morally debatable. His worst choices were brutal and wicked. Simply stated, Joab was not a Bible character we ought to model our lives after.
All that being said, Joab possessed one rather commendable quality. It was a character trait that is much needed in our wishy-washy, never say anything the way it really is, never offend anyone (no matter how stupid or harmful their beliefs might be) world.
Joab was a fearless truth-teller.
On at least two occasions Joab was willing to say things that urgently needed to be said. The first time Joab spoke hard truth to David was through a wise woman from Tekoa. The woman spoke Joab’s words for him. If David had followed Joab’s counsel and found a way to reconcile with his son while still adequately dealing with his sin, years of war and untold human suffering might have been avoided.
The second time Joab confronted David was after a hard won battle with Absalom’s army. David was so grief-stricken over the death of his rebellious and horrible son that he neglected to show appreciation to the men who fought and won the war that saved Israel.
Joab informed David in a fairly harsh way that there were things more important than his grief. He advised David to behave like a leader and to start thinking with his head rather than his heart. Joab told David to grow up, move past his grief and do what needed to be done. Joab’s truthful but hard words saved the kingdom and perhaps altered the course of Israel’s history.
Joab’s tough talk and David’s response reminds me of some truths that I am sometimes inclined to forget. First, God uses less than perfect people to communicate critical truths. I can get caught in the trap of expecting perfection of others before I am willing to listen to what they have to say. When this happens I inevitably wind up overlooking some critical and possibly life changing truths. David’s willingness to hear out a less than perfect messenger reminds me that wise people prayerfully evaluate what others say to them.
That said, Christians should strive to be the kind of truth-tellers folks respect and respond to. Joab’s story reminds me that I should be striving to be the type of Christian whose actions and attitudes do not get in the way of God’s truth. Joab was a born leader, gifted with incredible insight and the ability to articulate truth in a powerful and life changing way. He was also a moral and spiritual failure.
Joab’s life is a reminder that the spiritual impact we have in this world is directly tied to what kind of life we choose to live.